Toks is pronounced like the word ‘jokes’ with a ‘T’ instead of the ‘j’.  Pronounced ‘Tokes’.

Toks is an abbreviation of my full Yoruba (Nigerian) name, Adetokunbo. Nigerian names have deep meaning. Adetokunbo means “The Crown has come from across the Waters.” This is a unisex name given to any child (male or female) born abroad, i.e. across the oceans. I was born in London and taken home to Nigeria to live.

I was brought up the traditional Nigerian way, very strict and very disciplined, with a lot of love. I treasures many happy memories.

In terms of numerology, her name ‘Toks’ adds up to 11, a Master Number. I am a water sign, born on the 7th day and the 7th month.  So, no surprise, I love the sea.

I am the daughter of a cricketer, professor, gynaecologist, doctor, teacher of medical students, a Nigerian Chief and Shaman.  A lot of his students are now very  successful doctors around the world, in UK, USA and Europe.  He is fondly remembered for his brilliance and his love of cricket. At his funeral, many women approached me to share the miracle my father had created for them. They had better health . They had babies when they were told they would not. May he rest in perfect peace. “RIPP Daddy. RIPP Sir.”

I am the daughter of a retired midwife, writer, painter, artist, teacher and sculptor. My wonderfully intellectual English mother loves listening to classical music, drinking tea and watching old movies on TV. When she was a midwife, she would whisper a prayer into each of the baby’s ears to be happy and safe. Sometimes, I would hear her crying from the pain and suffering when the mothers or babies were not getting better.  What a great heart!

I have three younger siblings:  my sister, Remi, an architect, and my two brothers, Julian, a surgeon and Jeremy, a chartered accountant. All are great teachers and practitioners in their chosen field.