New Moon & Sun in Aquarius 18.2.2015

Happy Super New Moon in Aquarius. Happy Birthday Aquarians. This is the second New Moon in Aquarius in 2015. You can read more about the first on New Moon in Aquarius 20 January 2015. This energy is close to Pisces energy.

Wednesday 18 February 2015 New Moon & Sun in Aquarius (2^nd Aquarius) SUPER NEW MOON 23:49 GMT London Element – Air Book HERE: http://2newmoonaquarius2015.eventbrite.co.uk

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What will we do in this Workshop

We will be meditating on planting a Soul Seed to manifest a Soul Mate.
What expansiveness means to you.
We will be Saying Goodbye.
We will be creating a Crystal Matrix Vortex for the World.
We will be sending healing to those who have asked for healing.

Energy of Now

Wobbly The past few days have been wobbly and uncertain as many of us have been tossed around with our emotions in our galactic ship. We have been unsure, our minds have been clouded; and our words have not been able to come out properly, or even at all! It really has been an emotional tornado in trying to arrive at a decision; to settle the mind in a clear way. It’s like we have been walking in the fog, unsure of what to do. As we enter the portal of this magical New Moon, we begin to see clearer. We begin to grasp stronger thought patterns. We know we are at the precipice of change and the illusion reveals the reality of our lives. How magical.

Speaking Your Truth Are you speaking your truth from a point of resentment, to make a point, to hurt and pretend you did not intend to hurt? Are you sending an email to hit the person in the heart to score a point and win an argument or issue you have in your head that you think is an issue, and it feels better to send it via email or text rather than converse with the person? Are you assuming someone wants to help you when in reality they do not. Are you realising that they are undermining your work, your life, or your way; just by being in your presence? Double whammy New Moon in Aquarius is speaking your truth and hurting the other as you do so. The lack of empathy, tactfulness and compassion hits you with this energy. Rather than seek a ‘fight’, allow the element AIR to move through you – all the energy to move through you. Really work on flowing the energy. Sometimes what we think is our energy is the other person’s energy. And at least you now know how they feel, and you can either work through it together, or part separate ways. Sometimes we need to say Goodbye to certain situations and people.

Tightness Vs. Freedom When we recognise ourselves in each other; we allow ourselves to be free. With this knowledge; when ‘they’ express both the good and bad to us; we understand it better; and perhaps it helps us not to be too upset with ‘them’! There are many ways of getting close in interacting with each other. This may be one of the difficult ways to do this. The challenge is allowing ourselves to recognise that we have chosen this path together; and healing is needed for both parties to grow; otherwise, patterns of behaviour will be repeated in other interactions. New Moon in Aquarius teaches us to BREATHE IN AIR into our skulls, pores of our skin, and, the in-between area of the skin and the skull. A good time to release any tightness in your physical body through breathing in the element of Aquarius – AIR.

Nothing changes until you do. If your partner is upsetting you, look to yourself. If any person is upsetting you, look to yourself. Nothing changes until you do. Be compassionate to yourself. Really live realistically to change your attitude and behaviou
r. We all know there are many tools to do this – Tantra, yoga, spiritual coaching, personal development, etc. The most important thing that has to change is your BELIEF. Your beliefs will change your reality. If you think poor, you will be poor. If you think you will get the house, you will get the house. If you are too busy to do the work that needs to be done to heal yourself, then I know that you must be comfortable with the dis-ease and the un-rest and the un-happiness you experience. If you are not willing to seek help, then you cannot be helped. To change, you must know you need to change. It does not matter if people tell you. If YOU do not hear it, and know it, and decide to change, then there will be no change. There is no need to preach to a closed door!

7 Year Old Energy There is a belief system that says a lot of our problems stem from our formative years – between the ages of one and seven. Work to heal the Parent, Adult and Child enable people to open their hearts to more love; and to allow love to enter in; and in the opening, allow the receiving of more love in their daily and practical life. This leads to having healthy and wholesome relationships. You are the Master of Your Life. If a 7 year old runs it, then there will be disaster in handling your decisions; especially if the 7 year old expresses itself in a relationship or business in the 45 year old woman/man. Healing is required when you realise that the 7 year old you is running your life and your relationships. Would you let a 7 year old child run your life?

Expressing Your Joy New Moon in Aquarius is about expressing your joy and gratitude through your tears, being vulnerable as you express authentically your truth. Not an easy thing to do. It is not a sign of weakness. It indicates a need to get closer to the people around you – to show you are vulnerable. Revealing your fears and vulnerability in a relationship is a good sign, especially when the others realise that compassion is what is needed here. To be vulnerable and then to be attacked by the person the vulnerability is expressed; shows the other person’s lack of integrity, understanding, compassion and may reveal a shadow side in them that you may have felt before, even if you did not want to acknowledge it.

Signs, Omens and Symbols Watch out for signs, omens and symbols. What are they telling you? If you closed your eyes now and imagined yourself flying like a dragonfly or butterfly, where would you be. Would you see a dragonfly or butterfly clearly? Or would you see something different; like the distinct image of a red crab in the red background? Clarity is coming, slowly but surely. Go with the flow. We will be working with this energy in this New Moon Gathering Workshop, as we look for Signs, Omens and Symbols though I am not asking you to over-analyse things. Stop over-analysing people, things and situations. Stop being cruel and tactless with your words and behaviour. Be gentle with yourself and others. Watch more for empowering Signs, Omens and Symbols; rather than negative limiting blocking ones that make you feel intolerant of yourself and others.

Relationships So many talks about relationships. So many points of view. So much to read about. How about finding your own true inner relationship with yourself first before finding a relationship with another. You have your own relationship issues to sort our first before going to make someone a ‘victim’ of your own issues. How about starting with yourself first. Healing your issues and working through them, recognising the role you may have played in creating your own pain; instead of blaming, pointing the finger, complaining, judging or denying.

Valentines We had Valentines on 14 February, which brought out a lot of talk about relationships – all types of relationships – not just emotionally personal intimate sexual relationships. What did you do on Valentine’s Day? Did you participate and celebrate it? Is this the only time you do this in the year? Or perhaps you do not celebrate Valentine’s Day because everyday is Valentines Day with your partner?

Did you buy yourself a Valentines Day card? I did. I felt so happy when I opened it on Valentines Day. I felt loved by me, by the aspect of me I do not honour – the other side of me – the male side of me, as I am female. I have taken a picture here so you can see that I practice what I preach. My partner thought it was funny that I got one for myself; when he got me two wonderful cards. I smiled beaming:

“If I do not love myself and I exist because of the love you have for me, then I am basing my happiness on having you in my life. Happiness is not based on having a partner. Happiness is loving yourself and valuing yourself; enabling you to value and respect another. Happiness for me exists because, through revering my essence; I revere yours wholeheartedly.”

It is very important to untangle yourself from requiring your partner to fill your needs. It is important to be clear about yourself; and have the love you have always wanted; and believe you will get the love you want. In private moments with yourself, you will discover your inner true self. In private moments with your partner, you will both discover your inner true united self. Being more loving starts with yourself. A healthy relationship is very important.

Tree of Life What is your Tree of Life? Is it just you and your immediate family? Is it just you and your loved ones against the world? The Tree of Life is how you choose to live your life. You may blossom fruits and life force or you may not. You may live in a home of joy and happy abundance or you many not. You may be united or you may not.

Double whammy New Moon in Aquarius comes to sit with us and asks us to look at our own individual Tree of Life and see how it relates to serving the world and serving humanity. For me the Tree of Life is a sanctuary of human love based on mutual respect, listening with ease and sharing with joy. It is the collective living together of the universal forces of life. That is why I love celebrating the New Moons and the Full Moons. Happy New Moon in Aquarius.

Saying Goodbye is sometimes the best thing to do. Saying Goodbye is sometimes the only thing to do. We are saying goodbye to the year of the Horse and we welcome, on the 19th of February, the Chinese New Year of the Sheep / Goat. This is their LUNAR NEW YEAR. Happy New Year. We are saying Goodbye to the old, and Welcome to the New Unknown.

Saying Goodbye is the best thing to do when we need to go home to sleep, when we need to catch our train/taxi and when we have partied enough. Saying Goodbye is the best thing to do when we know we will see the person another day, when we feel safe about our future and when we are ready to step into the unknown.

Saying Goodbye is the best thing to do when YOU decide to set Yourself free of the pain and torment YOU feel in Your life. You say Goodbye to Your pain and torment. You have had enough. You recognise what you want to change and get help. You begin to let go of the need to hold on to a limiting belief or situation. You forgive yourself and the other/s involved. You can forgive yourself for allowing yourself to have the pain. Recognise what You want to change and You are ready for change. Acknowledge you are ready for Change. Take action and get help from someone who walks with you through Your pain; holding your hands. You do not need to do it alone. Choose the person who feels safe to you, to help you access your unconscious mind and rewire it. Saying Goodbye is the best thing to do at these times.

When is Saying Goodbye the best thing for You to do? What are You Saying Goodbye to as You enter this Chinese New Year of the Green Wooden Goat/Sheep?

Happy Chinese New Year: Green Wooden Goat/Sheep 19/2/2015

未 Fabulous symbol of auspiciousness, good luck, peace. Goats and Sheep give meat, milk and wool to Mankind.

Happy New Year. It is the Year of the Wooden Sheep / Goat, which appears every 60 years. Here are some nice Chinese traditions I love and found interesting:

Red is the key colour for the New Year as Red is the colour of prosperity and wealth. It wards off bad luck and misfortune.
Wear red underwear to bring in good fortune.
Give gifts of money in red envelopes to children and elders.
Eat fish for good luck and surplus money. This is because the Chinese word for ‘fish’ sounds like the word for ‘surplus’.
Eat Chinese dumplings to bring more money and wealth into your life. The shape of the Chinese dumplings is the shape of old Chinese money – the ‘silver ingot’.
Meet up with family and friends. Have a Reunion Dinner with all the generations of your family.
Enjoy watching firecrackers, lion dances, and dragon dances.
Decorate your home in red e.g. buy red lanterns, red couplets.
Three Goats bring harmony.
Offer a sacrifice (whole goat, chicken, duck, or live carp) to the God of Fortune – the Five Roads God and pray for good fortune for the coming year. The Five Roads are the South Road, North Road, Central Road, West Road and East Road.
Send the God of the Poor off to heaven on the 6th day of the Festival. Legend has it that even when you gave him clothes, he would tear them up and then wear them. People send him to heaven rather than see him poor on earth.
The numbers 8 and 6 are lucky numbers.
On the day of the New Year there are some things you shoul
d not do, such as: Do not ask for a loan. Do not let your children cry. Do not clean your home. Do not wash your hair.

The Year of the Goat is the year of great success through practical action. It is not the year to sit and relax and do nothing. Yes you can relax and enjoy relaxing. Then get up and take action. The Year of the Goat is an action year in a relaxed manner. You gather and collect your energies and build on them. You support humanity and nurture yourself while doing so. You enjoy the fresh air and natural resources for your good health. Keep your sleep and waking time consistent. Really nurture yourself during this time – I mentioned this earlier in the year – 2015 is the year to nurture yourself. Goat is practical and loves climbing high up the mountain. We can see this as developing the Higher Self and our own personal initiation into our Higher Dimensions. It has a wonderful energy of building things and creating wonderful building blocks in your life. We anchor with strength.

If you feel you are not creative or you want more creativity, the Year of the Goat is a good year to call in more creative energy. Great qualities to develop with this energy are gentleness, calm, ease of living, kindness and peacefulness. Naughty qualities to watch out for are: laziness, feeling like a victim, dishonesty, complaining, blaming, not taking action, being controlled, and selfishness. When things go wrong, Goats blame everything and everybody, and every situation, and every circumstance. It is never their fault. Goat energy needs to learn to take responsibility and step into its own power for it’s own spiritual evolution. We may want to ‘sacrifice’ ourselves or others – so there is a lot of shadow self to work with this year.